Enemies

Beware of Hypocrisy

Series: The Sermon on the Mount

Speaker: Pastor Justin Wheeler

Scripture: Matthew 6:1-4

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I’m going to need your help with something this morning. I need you to help me define a term that we are all familiar with. It is a term that is used quite a bit within the church and it is used by the world to describe the church. It is a term that always carries a negative association, no one wants to be called out by this term. But it is also a term that describes all of us at one point or another. The term is hypocrisy and there are several different ways that it is commonly used.

One way this term is used is when those outside the church use it to complain about Christians. We are called hypocrites when we fail to live up to the cultures standard of what a Christian is supposed to be like. A skeptic might claim…

“I have to doubt any religion that has so many fanatics and hypocrites…There are so many people who are not religious at all who are more kind and even more moral than many of the Christians I know.”[1]

In this case, hypocrisy is being defined by not living up to certain expectations or cultural standards and there is some truth to this.

Another way the term is used is when a high profile Christian leader is exposed in a scandal involving sin. When this happens, the first thing out of people’s mouth is, “Hypocrite!” They are calling this person a hypocrite because while they were leading people in Christian ministry they were also leading a double life. Their day job as a minister was hiding some secret sin and that sin has finally caught up with them. They are hypocrites indeed.

There’s another way this term is being used. Some Christians have begun to use this term as an assessment of their own personal relationship with Christ. Kevin DeYoung writes:

It’s common (today) to think of hypocrisy as the gap between your actions and your feelings. So, if I do something without having my “heart” in it then I’m a hypocrite. Evangelicals are especially sensitive to this charge because we believe (quite rightly) that Christianity is more than “just going through the motions.” We believe faith must be sincere (otherwise it is hypocritical).[2]

There is some truth here as well. In this case, hypocrisy is being defined as doing religious things without having appropriate religious feelings. We’ve all been in this position. We come to church and don’t feel like singing, or like giving; but we do it anyway and we pray that our hearts will catch up with our actions. I’m not so sure we should call this hypocrisy, maybe we should call it maturity. There are plenty of times in our lives as Christians when doing what is right doesn’t always feel good.

So, which one of these do we think is the right definition of hypocrisy? Is hypocrisy the failure to live up to cultural standards? Is it living a double life? Is hypocrisy simply going through the motions without engaging the heart? Or is there another definition that we need to consider? I think there is.

Transition…

Jesus used the term hypocrite more than any other person in Scripture and He used it as a way to confront a certain group and their approach to religion. He also used it to teach His followers how to live or better yet, He used it to teach us how not to live.

Matthew 6:1 “Beware of practicing your righteousness before other people in order to be seen by them, for then you will have no reward from your Father who is in heaven. 

2 “Thus, when you give to the needy, sound no trumpet before you, as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and in the streets, that they may be praised by others. Truly, I say to you, they have received their reward. 3 But when you give to the needy, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing, 4 so that your giving may be in secret. And your Father who sees in secret will reward you. 

Jesus began this sermon by describing the essential elements of Christianity. The Christian faith is not simply the result of accepting certain theological truths, nor is it simply adhering to certain religious practices. At its core Christianity is religion in the heart. It begins when we are brought face to face with the reality of who God is and with the reality of who we are in contrast.

In Matthew 5, Jesus took us on a journey through a series of Biblical laws and each one of them was aimed to show that deep down the biggest problem we face is the problem of sin in our heart. He wanted to teach us that true religion must begin in the heart. Now moving into chapter 6, Jesus wants to teach us that true religious practice must also begin in the heart.

Sermon Focus…

I. Beware of Hypocrisy (V. 1)

Matthew 6:1 “Beware of practicing your righteousness…

In this verse, Jesus is warning us about something that is common and once again it is primarily an issue of the heart. He tells us to beware. He wants us to be in a state of focused awareness about how we live out our religious devotion. Jesus is not warning us against practicing religious behavior, in fact, all of chapter 6 is about the practice of religious behavior.

In this chapter, Jesus is going to teach us about giving, prayer and fasting. He is going to help us understand how to truly serve God and how to faithfully trust God while worry and anxiety are trying to take over. This chapter is about how we live our lives out of a sincere relationship to God. But the warning here in verse 1 is aimed to show us that there is a way that we can carry our religious behaviors and they be completely worthless.

It all comes down to our motive. It all comes down to the state of our heart.

Matthew 6:1 “Beware of practicing your righteousness before other people in order to be seen by them, for then you will have no reward from your Father who is in heaven. 

So, this is what we need to know in order to define what it means to be a hypocrite. According to Jesus, a hypocrite is someone who carries our religious practices merely to be seen by others. They do the right thing but with the wrong motive. They are trying to appear deeply religious/pious but in reality, they are phony.

John MacArthur tells the story of a holy man from the middle east. Every day the man would come and sit in a prominent street corner in the city and he would cover himself in ashes as a sign of his humility and devotion to the practice of asceticism. Tourist would often come to the city and see this man and ask permission to take his photograph. The old man would reply, “Just a moment, let me rearrange my ashes.” He wanted to make sure that people would see just how humble and devoted he was to his religion, so he would quickly get into costume.

The kind of hypocrisy that Jesus is describing is nothing more than rearranging our ashes. It’s the art of getting into costume so that the people around us will think that we are serious about God, serious about our religious devotion, serious about spiritual things; but in the end, it’s all a game. Hypocrites are little more than actors in their own stage play and they are surrounded by an audience of men and women.

The Greek word for Hypocrite (v. 2) refers to a stage actor, someone who wears a mask and plays a role. An actor wears a costume and memorizes lines so that they can portray a character, but it’s all a show. The whole business is to act the part in order to be seen by the audience in a way that is believable and draws you into the story being portrayed. In other words, the religious actions of a hypocrite are nothing more than a performance designed to impress those who are watching.

But notice that Jesus doesn’t just warn us about those hypocrites, he warns us about being a hypocrite. Beware of your own empty religion. That is how Jesus opens the middle section of His Sermon on the Mount. Beware! Now why does Jesus need to tell us to beware of being or becoming a hypocrite? Because sometimes we just don’t see it coming.

Culturally speaking, there are these games that we play in the Bible Belt. Everybody here is a Christian, no matter what they believe or what they don’t believe. We are Christians down here because we are American, which is Biblically ridiculous but culturally normal. What this really means is that we have adopted a mask of Christianity and much of the religious practices that go along with that, but for many it’s all a show. As long as life is easy, and no problems arise, folks maintain their mask and keep going about their religious performance.

But the reality is that these people are just playing a game or playing a part. They have no intention of actually submitting to Jesus, they just want to make people believe that they are. They have no intention of trusting in God’s Word, or repenting from sin or adopting a Biblical worldview, they just want to be lifelong worship attenders. They are treating church as a hobby and Christianity as a game and if we aren’t careful we can be made to believe that the game is the real thing.

The Pharisees certainly didn’t see themselves as hypocrites or actors. They thought that their religion was pure. They thought of themselves as the guardians of true religion. They were the ones that took the law seriously. They were the ones who weren’t afraid to point out other people’s sins. They were the ones that God would reward in the end…or so they thought.

But Jesus came to show them that they were playing a game. He came to reveal that their religion was nothing more than an outward show and that God was concerned with the heart. God is concerned with humility, mercy, and sincerity that flows out of a heart that had been changed by the gospel of grace, but the Pharisees were whitewashed tombs. Pretty on the outside but full of dead men’s bones and they had no idea. They were blind to their own hypocrisy.

But Jesus has come to warn us against following their lead. He has come to show us what life with God is really like and to help us understand this life with God, Jesus gives us some real-world illustrations. Let’s look at the first one.

II. What Not to Do (V. 2)

V. 2 “Thus, when you give to the needy, sound no trumpet before you, as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and in the streets, that they may be praised by others. Truly, I say to you, they have received their reward.

This first example has to do with giving money to the poor. Now, this is not the same thing as giving your tithe on Sunday although the principle still applies. In Jesus day, it was common and considered essential to true piety for people to give food, money or clothing to the poor. In a time when there was no such thing as government assistance, the needs of many were met by the people of the community. This was not only the custom of the day but also the instruction God gave to Israel.

Deut 15:7 “If among you, one of your brothers should become poor, in any of your towns within your land that the Lord your God is giving you, you shall not harden your heart or shut your hand against your poor brother, 8 but you shall open your hand to him and lend him sufficient for his need, whatever it may be…11 For there will never cease to be poor in the land. Therefore, I command you, ‘You shall open wide your hand to your brother, to the needy and to the poor, in your land.’ 

Once again, we see that Jesus is teaching an already established Biblical truth. He is not doing away with giving to the poor, but the emphasis that He wants to make focuses on the heart of the giver. He wants us to check our motives. He wants us to ask the question, “Why am I giving?” And to press this question into our hearts he gives us an absurd illustration.

He says, “When you give, sound no trumpet before you, as the hypocrites do, that they may be praised by others.” Now, it doesn’t appear that this was something that actually happened. There is no evidence to suggest that Jews were accustomed to blowing a trumpet when they gave to the poor. Jesus’ point is to show how ridiculous it would be to seek attention in this way for doing what was right. It reeks of the kind of self-centered sinful attitude that God rejects.

When we give money to others in order to be recognized and praised, our motive is not to help the poor it is to please ourselves. Our real desire is not to please others, but to make them think better of us which is ultimately about our own self-gratification. This is pride plain and simple. This is self-exaltation and God doesn’t reward sin.

Luke 18:14 everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, but the one who humbles himself will be exalted.” 

The only reward that comes to the hypocrite is the fact that he/she impressed a couple of people, but God was not impressed. What pleases God is humility. What pleases God is a sincere concern for the needs of others. What pleases God is sacrificial giving because that is how He gives.

For God so love the world that He gave His only begotten Son…

God gives with grace and His giving is a sacrifice. He gives the best He can give, and He gives it to those who don’t deserve it. This is the essence of the gospel and it is the model for how God wants us to give as well.

Now, you will notice that we don’t have a trumpet set up here at Cornerstone for when you give; but that doesn’t mean we are immune to this type of selfish giving. There are many trumpets that people use today and there are other selfish motives propelling people to give.

I’ve served in a church where members would refuse to give because they didn’t like a decision the pastor made, and they wanted him fired. The pastor hadn’t committed sin it was just that this guy didn’t like him and wanted to put pressure on the deacons to get the pastor out. It’s like he saw himself as a shareholder and he wanted to use his money not for praise but for influence.

There is another reason why some people give, and it isn’t to influence the church nor to win the praise of men. Sometimes people give because they think they can influence God. They think that when they give money they are somehow going to earn spiritual favor from God. But salvation can’t be bought, no matter what the Pope tells you.

In Acts 8, we read about a man in Samaria who was a magician. When he saw the power of the Holy Spirit in the life of the apostles he offered them money in the hopes that he could secure the same power for himself.

Acts 8:20 But Peter said to him, “May your silver perish with you, because you thought you could obtain the gift of God with money! 21 You have neither part nor lot in this matter, for your heart is not right before God. 22 Repent, therefore, of this wickedness of yours, and pray to the Lord that, if possible, the intent of your heart may be forgiven you.

Money can’t buy you love and it can’t buy you salvation either. All it can do is impress the world. But there is a type of giving that God rewards.

II. How to do what God Rewards (Vv. 3-4)

3 But when you give to the needy,

Now, I want to point out that Jesus doesn’t say if you give but when you give. There is a certain expectation that as the people of God we will use our money in ways that God commands. Throughout the Scriptures we learn that God doesn’t need our gifts because He is entirely self-sufficient. But our gifts are intended to meet the physical and spiritual needs of others.

The Bible teaches that giving is an act of worship and it is done when we gather to praise God. Giving is an act of joy because God loves a cheerful giver. Giving is an act of mercy aimed at meeting the needs of others. Giving is an act of ministry as it is used to support the work of the church and to fuel the spread of the gospel. Giving is a personal responsibility because God doesn’t want us to give under compulsion but as each man had decided in his heart. Giving is an act of faith because we are trusting that God will provide for us even when we give sacrificially.

Here in Matthew 6, Jesus also teaches us that giving is an act of secret devotion from the heart.

V. 3 do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing, 4 so that your giving may be in secret. And your Father who sees in secret will reward you. 

What does it mean to give with your right hand but not to let your left hand know about it? Jesus is using another metaphor here of one side of the body doing something while at the same time not announcing what it has done in order to gain recognition. IOW, he is telling us to give in a discreet way that avoids self-promotion. This doesn’t mean that you should be sneaky when you put your offering in the plate, it means that you give with the desire to glorify God, not to glorify yourself.

If your giving comes from a heart of humility and love for God. If your giving is done with a sincere desire to obey God’s calling to care for those in need, to spread the gospel, and to support the church; If your giving is done as an act of worship to God and not for the influence or praise it might bring us, this is what God rewards. This is the type of giving that pleases God.

The hypocrite craves the praise of men and thinks little of God, so he gives for his own gain. The Christian seeks the glory of God and thinks little of man’s praise, so he gives generously to help those in need.

John Calvin, commenting on this passage, writes, “By this expression (Jesus) means that we ought to be satisfied with having God for our only witness.” As Christians we don’t live for the clapping of men, nor do we live so that we can pat ourselves on the back; we live for God. We live for the one who rescued us from ourselves. We live for the one who gave His life for our freedom. We live for the One who knows the secrets of our hearts and still loves us.

Conclusion…

So, what are the big ideas that God wants us to understand from this passage?

1. Going through the motions of religion alone will get you nowhere with God. External religion alone will earn you nothing with God. Salvation by works is a complete lie. God wants our religious devotion to be fueled by integrity in the heart. He wants to have a relationship with us that changes us from the inside out. He wants our religious devotion to be fueled by love for Him and that results in love for others.

2. I love this quote from Martyn Lloyd-Jones, “There is no reward from God for those who seek it from men.” If you are seeking the praise of men through your religious life, then the praise of men is all you can ever hope to gain. The root of man’s longing for the praise of others is pride and God opposes the proud, but He gives grace to the humble. If you do what you do for the admiration of the crowd, you have your reward.

3. The reward of sacrificial giving cannot be measured. The motivation for us to give sacrificially is surely tied to the fact that Christ gave sacrificially. He gave His life to meet our need. He drained the storehouse of his wealth to buy our freedom. God did not hold back His Own Son but gave Him up for us all, how will he not also with him graciously give us all things.

The hypocritical life is nothing but smoke and mirrors, attempting to earn a reputation that is undeserved. But deep down the hypocrite knows that it’s all an act that he/she uses to hide the shame and guilt in their heart. The only real escape is to be exposed by Jesus, and why not, He knows the truth already. He’s not fooled, and He never will be.

Jesus knows our hypocritical games too well and He is not only willing to call us out on them, but He also offers us freedom from the guilt and shame that we are so desperately trying to hide. He will give us a new identity in Him and will allow us to live without the mask.  

Let’s repent of our hypocrisy. Let’s go to Jesus for forgiveness and cleansing. Let’s go to His Word and let it teach us, humble us, grow us and make us more like Him.


 

[1] Tim Keller The Reason For God (pg. 51)

[2] https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/blogs/kevin-deyoung/what-is-hypocrisy/

 

 

Love Your Enemies

Series: The Sermon on the Mount

Speaker: Pastor Justin Wheeler

Scripture: Matthew 5:43-48

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It is well known that love is at the heart of the message and vision of Christianity. There is perhaps no more popular New Testament verse in the world than John 3:16, where we come to understand that God loves the world and in His love He gave His Son to us so that all who believe in Him will not perish but will have eternal life. The Father’s love for unlovable sinners, like us, is at the very heart of the Christian message.

But that is not the end of Christianity’s vision of love. The love of Jesus is a huge part of that vision. Jesus told his friends that there is no greater love in this world than the love that would cause a man to give his own life in order to save his friends and that is exactly what Jesus did. He died in our place. He took our place and sheltered us from the judgment of God and He did this because of His love. Jesus’ love for undeserving sinners, like us, is at the very heart of the Christian message.

But still, this is not the end of Christianity’s vision of love. In the NT gospels, we see Jesus teaching all of His disciples that we too are to be people of love. We are to love God with all our heart, soul, mind and strength. We are to love our neighbors as ourselves. We are even commanded to love our enemies and to pray for those who persecute us. Christians are commanded to love. We are to love others, even those whom we might naturally dislike and this too is at the very heart of the Christian message.

The Christian vision of love is incredible and it gives us the idea that God wants love to fill the earth and fuel all of our emotions and actions.

Transition…

As followers of Jesus we are called to love. We are called to love God in a way that resets our heart and enables us to love others in an extraordinary, unnatural and radical way. This morning we are going to learn three ways that Jesus wants us to understand the call to love: 1. Love your neighbors (V. 43), Love your enemies (Vv. 44-47) and Love like God (V. 48).

Matt 5:43 “You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ 44 But I say to you, Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, 45 so that you may be sons of your Father who is in heaven. For he makes his sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the just and on the unjust. 46 For if you love those who love you, what reward do you have? Do not even the tax collectors do the same? 47 And if you greet only your brothers, what more are you doing than others? Do not even the Gentiles do the same? 48 You therefore must be perfect, as your heavenly Father is perfect. 

Sermon Focus…

I. Love your Neighbor (V. 43)

v. 43 “You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’

This statement is difficult in a way that the previous ones are not. For the most part, the previous statements that Jesus has made in the Sermon on the Mount are easily found in the OT and Jesus’ point is to remind his audience of those OT laws and then to help them understand the deeper purpose of them. The law was given to teach God’s people how do what is right, but it was also given to show them the sin that dwells in their hearts.

The law does two things: it points out what we are supposed to do but it also shows us that our natural inclination is to do what we are not supposed to do. The law shows us how to live but it also shows us our sin.

Here in Matthew 5, Jesus wants to let the law do its thing with us, but in each case he has to address the fact that religious teachers had made a mess of how the people understood the law. In some cases, the religious leaders had softened the law, in other cases they had expanded it out to the point of absurdity. But here in verse 43 it appears that they have done two things: they took out a few words in order to limit their responsibility to their neighbors and then they completely added their own man-made law about how to treat their enemies.

The first part of the verse, “You shall love your neighbor…” is found in the book of Leviticus..

Lev 19:18 You shall not take vengeance or bear a grudge against the sons of your own people, but you shall love your neighbor as yourself: I am the Lord. 

This verse comes at the end of a section that is meant to teach God’s people how to interact with one another. God gave them clear instructions that they ought to care for one another, not to steal from one another, not to lie to one another, but to be fair and just and sincere. Then as a summary statement God says, “just, love one another.” The point is that if you love your neighbor you will not be tempted to take advantage of them, or to cheat them, or to overlook their needs. This is how God commanded His people to treat their neighbors.

By quoting this, Jesus is reminding the Jews that their relationship with each other is to be defined by love. But notice that a critical part of Leviticus 19 has been left off; the part about loving your neighbor as yourself. They decided that they would just leave that part of the verse out. The Jews in that day had reduced the command of God from “love your neighbor as yourself” to simply, “Love your neighbor.”

It might seem like a small thing, but if you think about it those two words make a world of difference. Those two words define the quality of our love, they set a standard that is incredibly high. Do you love your neighbor? Do you love your neighbor the way you love yourself?

Not only had they chipped away at God’s command but they also added a second command when they taught the people to “hate their enemy.” Now where did this come from?

If you do a search for the term hate in the Bible you will find it show up quite a few times. Sometimes it refers to the hatred that personal enemies feel toward one another, sometimes it refers to how people feel about the wicked, the idolaters, or those who stand opposed to God.

You’ll find that God hates certain things. He hates divorce, He hates empty hypocritical religion, He hates evil, corruption and injustice. In Amos 5 God tells His people to hate evil, specifically the evil in their own hearts.

But, none of these statements command God’s people to hate their enemies. And yet, this feeling has become so engrained in the thinking of God’s people that they treat it like its a command. Some believe that this problem arose because of the Jews misunderstanding of the command to love their neighbor. Since their neighbors were fellow Jews they decided that the command only applied to the people of God. So, in their minds they were required to love their fellow-Jews, but they were free to hate non-Jews, especially those who were their political enemies.

To be honest, who could blame them? They had been oppressed for years. First by the Egyptians, then the Assyrians, then the Babylonians and now the Romans. It may have been that hatred for enemies had become a mark of patriotism for Israel. Hating one’s enemies came to them naturally, but this is not what God had called them to do. The truth is that God had instructed them to care for their enemies.

Prov 25:21 If your enemy is hungry, give him bread to eat, and if he is thirsty, give him water to drink…(Paul quotes this in Romans 12, which we read last week)

So, this man-made command to hate your enemies had grown up like a rogue weed. It was a parasitic growth that had endured for years and was now widely accepted as the duty of faithful Jews and Jesus wants to confront this hatred in the hearts of His people, even in our hearts.

Our own world is filled with this type of hate. Jews still hate Palestinians. Muslim terrorists still hate the west and Americans most of all, and Americans hate them right back. Racism is alive in our country once again, or to be more honest it never truly left. Racism is a particularly ignorant form of hatred coupled with pride, which makes it doubly sinful. This is not true in all cases, but it is true in some that Republicans hate Democrats and vice versa.

We may think that as 21st century Americans we are beyond the type of petty hatred that Jesus is confronting in this passage, but I just don’t think so. You may think that I’m overstating things, but I think we’ve come to the point where hatred is growing in this country. What most disturbs me about this is that in some cases the church has fallen in lock step with the culture when it comes to this type of hatred.

In this passage, Jesus is confronting our tendency to embrace the natural hatred that flows out of our hearts toward people who are not like us and He is calling us to live radically different lives than the rest of the world. He is calling us to love our enemies.

II. Love your Enemies

v. 44 But I say to you, Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you,

The context of what Jesus is saying here has to do with religious persecution and those who oppose us on the basis of our faith. IOW, what makes someone our enemy is the fact that they are persecuting us for our faith in Christ. The Jews had been teaching that love should be limited to people like us, who believe like us, but Jesus is calling His disciples to not just love other Christians, but to love even those with whom we strongly disagree about God. He is calling us to love our persecutors.

Jesus is commanding us, that when our enemies insult us to our face we should retaliate with love. When people mock us for our faith we should pray for them. When people want us dead and we should want them to be saved.

Now, before we begin to think that this might just be pie-in-the-sky religious idealism, let me point out a few of the examples of this type of love that we see in the NT starting with Jesus himself. Jesus on the cross in Luke 23…

Luke 23:33-34  And when they came to the place that is called The Skull, there they crucified him, and the criminals, one on his right and one on his left.  34 And Jesus said, "Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do."

Stephen in Acts 7:60…

Acts 7:58-60 Then they cast him out of the city and stoned him…  59 And as they were stoning Stephen, he called out, "Lord Jesus, receive my spirit."  60 And falling to his knees he cried out with a loud voice, "Lord, do not hold this sin against them." And when he had said this, he fell asleep.

This is uncommon love. This is radical love fueled by a profound understanding of gospel realities. The gospel teaches that despite God’s goodness toward mankind, all of us have rejected Him in our hearts. We suppress the truth about Him and we seek to live as though we belong in God’s place. But despite our rebellion against God the gospel tells us that He loves us. Before the foundation of the world, He chose to love us and even while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.

We don’t deserve His love, but that doesn’t stop Him from loving us and when this truth takes hold of our hearts, it will begin to change the way we view everyone, even our enemies.

Pray for those who abuse you…

When they make fun of us for our faith in Christ, we approach God and ask that He show them their need of Christ. I don’t know about you but I’ll just be honest and let you know that this is not my natural disposition toward those who make it their aim to persecute me. My natural response is to defend myself, retaliate and turn away from my enemy. But Jesus simply will not let us run away from our enemies, He calls us to love them.

This is not “keep your friends close and your enemies closer.” This is not a self-serving ethic, this is not an appeal to proper social order, nor is this virtue for the sake of virtue. Jesus is calling us to love our enemies the way that He loves His enemies, with a divine and unconditional love that looks beyond the shame of this world and toward the glory to come.

Now, where are we going to get the resources that we need to love like this?

The power to love like Jesus flows in the veins of those who have been born again by the Holy Spirit to believe the truth of the gospel. Our very real human effort to love our enemies is the result of God’s grace in us, not the other way around.

Eph 5:1 Therefore be imitators of God, as beloved children. 2 And walk in love, as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us,

The Spirit of God works within us to make us more like Jesus. The primary motivation for us to love our enemies, is going to come when we remember that we were once the enemies of God. But in Christ He loved us. 

The resolve we need to love our enemies will be found at the foot of the cross; where God’s love put an end to our opposition to God. Our capacity to love our enemies will be directly linked to our understanding of the love of God.

A. The Love of God

v. 45 so that you may be sons of your Father who is in heaven. For he makes his sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the just and on the unjust.

Notice that God makes his sun to rise on the evil and the on the good. It’s His and that means that He can do with it what He pleases. He can make the sun shine on Israel while darkness falls on the rest of Egypt. But each day His sun rises to give life to all. We call this common grace but it is anything but common. This is a form of divine love and this is what Jesus is calling us to demonstrate to others.

Christian love, is not normal in any sense of the word, it is radical. He is calling us to view love for others as infinitely more valuable than our own comfort, our possessions, our reputation and our rights. He is not calling us to follow the whims of our emotions, but to consciously choose to serve rather than to demand.

He is calling us to a standard of love that is far more radical than anything that the world of religion, ethics or philosophy have ever developed. Jesus is calling us to love the way God loves. He is calling us to imitate the divine love of God, a love that is most clearly and profoundly seen in the gospel of our salvation.

The One who is here calling us to love radically is also the One who radically loves us.

How does Jesus’ love for us compare to the love found in the world?

B. The Love of the World

v. 46 For if you love those who love you, what reward do you have? Do not even the tax collectors do the same? 47 And if you greet only your brothers, what more are you doing than others? Do not even the Gentiles do the same?

To love those who love you is the baseline of love that should undergird any society and before we can feel the force of Jesus’ teaching we have to come to grips with the fact that we start out failing even to love in common ways.

Husbands ought to love their wives and wives ought to love their husbands, this should not be exceptional. Families ought to love one another, siblings ought to love one another, and friends ought to share a mutual love and respect for one another. But instead we see the opposite in most cases.

We hear of spousal abuse and infidelity on a daily basis. Much of our energy at home is spent breaking up arguments between our children. Friends and neighbors go to war with one another and in the evening their story ends up on the nightly news. This is simply the world we live in.

The type of love that Jesus calls common is often viewed as exceptional in our day. But Jesus expects this to be common among His followers. We ought to love one another, but much of the time even this is a struggle.

So what must we do? Our only response is to repent before the lord, seek forgiveness from Him and those we’ve failed to love, and then to learn from Christ what true love looks like in our lives. To love those who love you is good, right and true and as believers in Christ we should set the example for the world in loving those who love us. This is what our lives, families and churches should look like every day. We should be filled with love to the point of overflowing.

Love based on the principle of, “I’ll scratch your back if you scratch mine” is not an example of Christian love. Jesus wants us to give without strings attached. He wants us to love without selfish motives. He is calling us to pour our hearts out for others, for our enemies. This is amazing love.

Christ is calling us to love in a way that is out of place in this world, an alien love.

In a blogpost from 2014, Jared Wilson asks, “What if we looked at 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 from the reverse angle? Here is what we would read:

Impatience and unkindness is hatred.
Hate is envious and ego-centric.
Hate is arrogant and rude.
Hatred is insisting on one’s own way;
hatred is irritable or resentful;
it celebrates sin, and it mocks what is true.
Hate is whiny and thin-skinned,
thoroughly skeptical,
always pessimistic,
a born quitter.

But hatred ends . . .[1]

Now let’s turn things around and learn what it will look like for us to love like God.

1 Corinthians 13:4 Love is patient and kind; love is not envious or boastful; love is not selfish and rude. Love does not insist on its own way; it is not short-tempered or bitter; it does not celebrate sin, but celebrates the truth.  Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.  Love never ends.

Our love is to imitate the perfect love of God, not the hatred of men.

III. Love like God

v. 48 You therefore must be perfect, as your heavenly Father is perfect. 

Some teachers will say that this verse is teaching that sinless perfection is the goal of the Christian life. But if that were true, it would put this verse at odds with the rest of Jesus’ sermon and the whole of the NT. The perfection that Jesus is calling for here relates to the perfect love of God that is merciful and gracious. The Love of God is selfless love. It is love characterized by 1 Corinthians 13. It is perfect love and this is the type of love that we are called to show.

At the end of the day Jesus is calling us to imitate the love of the Father in how we interact with everyone, from family and friends, to fellow believers, and even to strangers and enemies. He calls us to love, to do good, to lend with no strings attached. God is the standard of how we are to love others, and God’s love is perfect.

There is not a time when we are more like our Father than when we love our enemies unconditionally.

Conclusion…

If we stand up for what is right, if we take our stand upon the Word of God and upon the gospel especially; we will have enemies. Those enemies will want to silence us. They will work to marginalize us. They will be hostile toward us in every way imaginable and Jesus tells us to surprise them with love.

As human beings, we should love our families well. As reasonable people, we should love those who love us. As peace-loving people, we should love our neighbors. As forgiven sinners, we ought to love unbelievers. As beloved children of God we are called to love our enemies and pray for those who persecute us. Let’s do that now.

 

 


[1] https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/blogs/jared-c-wilson/1-corinthians-13-reversed-reveals-much/